Presenting condition: Depression for 45yrs
Brief history: Mother died when he was just 13yrs old. Dad was very unemotional and had no other comfort from school or family.
Relevant timeline incidents:
13yrs Mum died of colon cancer. Her bed was in front room of house, and he would sit and chat with her. They were very close. Dad offered little comfort and he felt abandoned and alone. Dad worked nights so was often alone in the house.
13yrs Had 3 weeks off school following mum’s death, but then had a maths teacher yell at him upon his return as he was unaware of the bereavement.
Main remedy given: Buddleia
After 1st prescription:
He felt like a weight had been lifted after speaking about his experiences with me during the appointment. He can now speak about things without bursting into tears and apologizing. He has voluntarily decided to cut down on his prescription medication, as he feels he no longer needs it. He’s also unhappy with the side effects. His appetite has decreased and is satisfied with less food. He has lost some weight, and he feels better for this. Sleep is 100% better! His anticipatory anxiety has massively reduced and wakes feeling refreshed. Energy has increased as has his self-confidence.
After 2nd prescription:
Feels much better inside. Suffering a slight ‘choking’ sensation associated with swallowing food and anxiety. This happened 5yrs ago, when grandchild was born prematurely. Feels he is not dwelling on negative things anymore and his emotions feel more ‘real’ and intense, not numbed by the medication.
After 3rd prescription:
He has more confidence and more control over his life. Finds decision making, and saying no much easier. He is not comfort eating, which has resulted in weight loss and hence a better self image, increase in energy and agility.
Summary:
This man had lived with this grief and depression for over 4 decades! The changes and shifts he has experienced in just 3 months are huge for him and his family. Client decided to not continue our work together at this time.
